While
reading poem #479 by Emily Dickenson, I was surprised at the calm demeanor with
which the subject of death is discussed. Normally people view death as a
frightening, dreaded part of life. However, Emily Dickenson describes death in
the same manner that she would discuss an acquaintance or friend. Death is
portrayed as kind, quick, and polite, a far cry from the typical portrayals of
death as evil, violent, and often slow and agonizing. She even capitalizes the
word Death making it more than just a simple fact of life but a personified
object. Death is the subject of many of Dickenson’s poems, so perhaps in her
writing she came to terms with death, which is why Death is treated as an
acquaintance or friend rather than an adversary.
After
reading the poem several times, I found this poem had a calming effect over me
in regards to death. Through this poem, Dickenson reminds me that my attitude toward death should not be one of fear and dread, but one of acceptance. She points to the fact that death
is inevitable when she says “Because I could not stop for Death -/He kindly
stopped for me” (Dickenson 1-2). However, she is not scared when this
inevitable thing happens but rather welcomes it. She gives up the things she
loves and watches the world around her, as she never has before. Then she
describes how great it is to live eternally. I found myself no longer dreading
death by the end of the poem because it is inevitable and because centuries
feel shorter than a day in the afterlife. There is nothing to dread about death
because you get to live for eternity. It makes me wonder what faith Emily
Dickenson was or if she was of any faith at all. She takes a very Christian
approach to the afterlife. Overall I found the calm nature with which she
regards death soothing.